{"product_id":"it-takes-one-to-tango-how-i-rescued-my-marriage-with-almost-no-help-from-my-spouse-and-how-you-can-too","title":"It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage with (Almost) No Help from My Spouse―and How You Can, Too","description":"With a focus on self-empowerment and resilience, this refreshing and witty relationship guide has a reassuring counterintuitive message for unhappy spouses: you only need one partner to initiate far-reaching positive change in a marriage.\n\nConventional wisdom says that “it takes two” to turn a troubled marriage around and that both partners must have a shared commitment to change. So when couples can’t agree on how—or whether—to make their marriage better, many give up or settle for a less-than-satisfying marriage (or think the only way out is divorce).\n\nFortunately, there is an alternative. “What distinguishes Reilly’s book is that she says a warring couple don’t have to agree on the goal of staying together; it takes one person changing, not both, to make a marriage work” (The New York Times).\n\nMarriage and family therapist Winifred Reilly has this message for struggling partners: Take the lead. Doing so is effective—and powerful. Through Reilly’s own story of reclaiming her now nearly forty-year marriage, along with anecdotes from many clients she’s worked with, you’ll learn how to:\n\n-Focus on your own behaviors and change them in ways that make you feel good about yourself and your marriage\n-Take a firm stand for what truly matters to you without arguing, cajoling, or resorting to threats\n-Identify the “big picture” issues at the basis of your repetitive fights—and learn how to unhook from them\n-Be less reactive, especially in the face of your spouse’s provocations\n-Develop the strength and stamina to be the sole agent of change\n\nCombining psychological theory, practical advice, and personal narrative, It Takes One to Tango is a “wise and uplifting” (Dr. Ellyn Bader, Director of The Couples Institute) guide that will empower those who choose to take a bold, proactive approach to creating a loving and lasting marriage.\u003cbr\u003eASIN: 1501125869\u003cbr\u003eVSKU: DBV.1501125869.G\u003cbr\u003eCondition: Good\u003cbr\u003eAuthor\/Artist:Reilly, Winifred M.\u003cbr\u003eBinding: Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eNote:\u003c\/b\u003e Any images shown are stock photographs and product may differ from what is shown.  \u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eCondition Notes\u003c\/b\u003e: Gently used with minimal wear on the corners and cover. A few pages may contain light highlighting or writing, but the text remains fully legible. Dust jacket may be missing, and supplemental materials like CDs or codes may not be included. May be ex-library with library markings. Ships promptly!  \u003cbr\u003e","brand":"Dream Books Co.","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":41505998897210,"sku":"DBV.1501125869.G","price":6.79,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0555\/6011\/0138\/files\/1501125869-0.jpg?v=1783230240","url":"https:\/\/shop.dreambooksco.com\/products\/it-takes-one-to-tango-how-i-rescued-my-marriage-with-almost-no-help-from-my-spouse-and-how-you-can-too","provider":"Dream Books Co.","version":"1.0","type":"link"}