MenTorN: The Emotional Cost of Mentorship in the U.S. and Canada — and the Blueprint to Do It Right

When pain turns into passion, and passion becomes purpose. Men/TorN The Emotional Cost of Mentorship in the U.S. and Canada — and the Blueprint to Do It Right is not a story of perfect mentors or polished experts. It is the story of men who came from the same at-risk communities they now serve — men who were never counseled, never offered therapy, never fully healed themselves. Instead, they took the weight of their own struggles and turned it into fuel to guide the next generation. Written by Armand King, with contributions from Vincent Stalcup, this powerful book spans two nations, weaving together the voices of lived-experience mentors across the United States and Canada. Through raw storytelling and real-life lessons, it reveals the cost of mentorship — and the courage it takes to keep showing up when you yourself are still carrying scars. Inside, readers will find: Stories of Survival and Transformation: fiction-inspired but rooted in lived experiences of violence, grief, and resilience. Mentor Lessons Forged in Fire: guidance on setting boundaries, avoiding burnout, and practicing self-care even when resources are scarce. Why Lived-Experience Mentors Matter: how those who’ve “been there” can reach youth others cannot. Restorative Justice Insights: shifting systems from punishment to healing across schools, courts, and communities. The Community Mentor Oath: a universal call to presence, accountability, and integrity in the work. This book is for every youth worker, educator, nonprofit leader, social service provider, coach, and outreach worker who has ever carried the tension of mentoring without a mentor, guiding others while still healing yourself. It is not sanitized. It is not easy. It is real. Men/TorN is a North American call to mentors — proof that even when you haven’t been given the tools, you can still plant the seeds that change lives
ASIN: 1970312017
VSKU: DBV.1970312017.G
Condition: Good
Author/Artist:King, Armand
Binding: Paperback
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Condition Notes: Gently used with minimal wear on the corners and cover. A few pages may contain light highlighting or writing, but the text remains fully legible. Dust jacket may be missing, and supplemental materials like CDs or codes may not be included. May be ex-library with library markings. Ships promptly!