Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone With An Addiction

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Do you love someone with an addiction? Are you hurting, overwhelmed, or losing yourself while trying to save them? If so—you’re not alone. Loving someone in active addiction can feel like living in a storm you never asked to enter. You may be desperate for answers, scrambling to keep life together, or trapped in the emotional rollercoaster of someone else’s destructive behaviour. Watching someone you love disappear into addiction is heartbreaking—like mourning a person who is still alive. But here’s the truth: Their addiction is harming you, too. You have the right to reclaim your life, protect your peace, and put yourself first. ⭐ A Lifeline for Those Loving Someone With an Addiction In Saving You Is Killing Me: Loving Someone with an Addiction, author and Positive Psychology practitioner Andrea Seydel blends lived experience with the science of resilience and human flourishing to guide you back to yourself. Inside, you’ll learn how to: • Stop losing yourself in someone else’s addiction • Break free from codependent patterns and constant enabling • Set healthy boundaries without guilt • Prioritize self-care, mental health, and emotional safety • Heal from manipulation, toxic relationship cycles, and betrayal trauma • Rebuild confidence, joy, and inner strength • Shift the focus from saving them to saving yourself This book teaches you how to “struggle well,” rise stronger, and begin living a life that feels peaceful, grounded, and authentically yours. ⭐ A Compassionate, Science-Backed Path to Healing As a leader in applied Positive Psychology, Andrea Seydel uses evidence-based strategies and uplifting guidance to help you navigate pain with resilience. She offers practical tools to support your well-being, restore your identity, and help you reconnect with the person you were meant to be. This book is not about fixing the addicted person—it is about freeing, healing, and reclaiming you. ⭐ You Don’t Have to Do This Alone The Saving You Is Killing Me community, podcast, and resources extend compassionate support so you never feel alone on this journey. Whether your loved one chooses recovery or not, you can begin to rebuild your life, safeguard your mental health, and create deep, lasting change. If you’re tired of coming second to addiction… If you’re done being caught in the line of fire… If you’re ready to protect your peace and reclaim your happiness… This book will help you begin the journey back to YOU. ⭐ Praise for Saving You Is Killing Me “An astonishing amount of information on almost every aspect of resilience. When faced with trauma, manipulation, codependency, and toxic relationships, this book empowers readers with research, interventions, and practical tools to reclaim their lives.” — Rob Hannely, Recovery Today Magazine “Andrea Seydel uses the science of human flourishing to restore hope, resilience, and joy. This book helps you take back your power and shift the focus onto you—not the addicted loved one.” — Louisa Jewell, MAPP Your healing starts now. You don’t have to walk this hard path alone.
ASIN: 1999140931
VSKU: DBV.1999140931.G
Condition: Good
Author/Artist:Seydel, Andrea D.
Binding: Paperback
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Condition Notes: Gently used with minimal wear on the corners and cover. A few pages may contain light highlighting or writing, but the text remains fully legible. Dust jacket may be missing, and supplemental materials like CDs or codes may not be included. May be ex-library with library markings. Ships promptly!
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